Sunday, August 26, 2018

Fuzzy logic.. ...fair and lovely cream!!

Fuzzy logic : Fair and Lovely Cream
When i read this caption i wonder..are you implying that lovely are only the fair folks.? And are you telling me that when u become fair..then u will become lovely.?? And that this fairness cream is a passport to the ohhh lala..feeling.
So it means that when i use this cresm i will become fairer and if iam brown or black(due to skin pigmentation) the use of this cream will change my skin to a fairer look
.The ad on the television also confirms this desirability towards fairness.The girl gets a job, the marriage gets arranged..all in a jiffy..that too only after the use of this cream.Are you trying to tell me that this cream can change my skin to a fairer color and therefore my life will change.
Since when has skin colour determined attributes like being skilled, responsible, punctual, a good decision maker,that makes you employable ? Which are considered worthwhile in the process.Similar in the case of marriage. Where fairness determines that all is well and its a yes from the boy looking for a fair bride.
What about compatability,commitment,loyalty as a consideration for a yes from both sides.
Does it mean that all other than fair remain unemployed and unmarried.
To me the label fair and lovely stinks of a racist propoganda.It makes people feel inadequate and not ok with themselves.This is obvious as the sale of this cream is in large numbers.Every Fair and Lovely and Fair and Handsome that is sold to me spells a different story.The consumer feels i need this cream to change my life.I do not accept myself as i am.And if i look fairer Iam likely to be more desireable for the other sex
All of which to me devalues the user,lowers the confidence and capitalizes on thr feeling of inadequacy adovcated through these advertisments.
Instead build confidence of consumers , change attitudes towards self acceptance, and increase self esteem...all an inside matter to be worked upon.
To me fair and lovely is surely unfait and far from lovely..!! Users think before you buy.Value yourelf more than the cream..!!!

a tiny write up on changethought change life!!


๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿƒ Thagamma felt tired.She looked at her feet.Dry lines on the heels,liked cracked soil in a famine land.She wanted a pedicure.But going to the parlour was beyond her budget.And it would raise eyebrows too.It seemed a very high society thing.She got up early for routine chores.Cook.Clean.Wash.Mop.Cut.Boil.Today she warmed water in a bucket.Cut open the Re.1 shampoo sachet with her teeth and poured the contents in the bucket.The shampoo fragrance smelled good.She dipped her feet in that water.Waited for her feet to soak.It was bliss.Then she wiped them with an old saree.She looked at them.Looked good.Felt good."Tomorrw,when my feet are in water,i put on my ear phones and listen to my favourite song.Its been 15 years...! Change thought.Change life...for its never too late..๐ŸŒŸ๐Ÿƒ


Friday, August 24, 2018

Sheroes: women in history.No women in Herstory.







this is the introduction part of my video..documentary on women in history...its the narration of 3 womens stories 

Wednesday, August 22, 2018

A page from my diary๐Ÿ’ฆ๐ŸŒผ

๐ŸŒธ⭐A page from my diary :
My school years were traumatic.My self confidence at an all time low.All this was closely linked to my poor performance in academics.I believed that Iam bad because my grades were bad. In college I did the home science course.I further believed that i am a left over.Home science was  closely associated with domestic work like cooking, cleaning and looking after children. I despied my degree even more. I felt now I am certified to do housework. That's my past.
Over the years I worked on myself,faced my fears,pushed myself to do what I want to do. Today , I love what I do.Iam excited to try out my ideas.I story tell, I conduct training programs on confidence building,I use my writing skills and speaking skills.My journey is exciting!!
I decided to learn from my past not regret it. Change thought,change life. !!๐ŸŒธ⭐

Monday, August 20, 2018

at Kashale with std. XII students on confidence building December 20 2016

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at IBSAR, Belapur with MBA students:orientation program 9th August 2017

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At IBSAR,Belapur 23rd July 2017 on motivation..the fresh batch (BBA)

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At Tata Institute of Social Sciences with students persuing a counselling course November25, 2016

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Tape a tale : my story narration on reunion

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Hear it on the web page above and let me know !

At an orphanage in Pune.. for girls ..we did a paper tearing activity ,Feb 18th , 2018

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NSS Camp at Shraddha Foundation for IBSAR students December 9, 2017

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Speaking to the students on create thoughts that are forward looking..22nd Dec 2017
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NSS students from colleges in Mumbai.. The session was conducted at Karjat.
Speaking to the students on the power of positive thoughts!!(January 6th , 2018)
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At MIT Pune...a session on mind mapping, self reflection and thought power...17th march 2018

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Story telling municipal primary school children...at Karjat today.. age group 3-10 year olds March 24, 2018

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At NIFT,Kharghar on Employ ability Skills April 5th 2018

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Jayanti Bhave June 2 · At Anglo Eastern Marine Academy today...June 2 ,2018 A session on determination,team work and communication skills!

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at IBSAR BELAPUR : (16th July, 2018)session on story telling and motivation...some thought mapping and activity based learning!

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At Anglo Eastern Marine Institute (AEMI ,Khandpe) a session on motivation and leadership

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A 3 hour HR session with 40 cadets ( stories,mind mapping and public speaking skills)@Anglo Eastern Marine Academy,Khandpe

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Sunday, August 19, 2018

On menstruation and hygiene for young adolesence girls

These are sanitory napkins that the govenment has made available at a low cost
Rs.10 for 4 pads.This is affordable
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on dec 24th 2016 we spoke to young adolesence girls on menstruation and hygiene.These girls had a vague idea about menstruation .Knowledge source was mainly the peer group.The teacher or mother are inhibited to share this information with the girls. Sme girls thought that "huggies"(diaper used for babies) were to be used during menses. Disposal was a problem. Girls in teh rural remote areas use the cloth. Drying the cloth is an issue as its embarrasing for them. Plus when it is dried indoors there is no sunlight that reaches it . The sanitory napkins available in the market are expensive( about rs. 80 for 10 that the girls can ill afford)
The session was conducted in small groups with 10 grls in each. There wer no male members there. The girls were comfortable in small numbers. This is in Khed, an interior school in Raigadh district,near Karjat.Maharashtra India